Scared? Don’t be. Here’s my story.

Posted on November 9, 2007 6 Comments

One of my best girl friends recently lamented that she sometimes gets intimated visiting my blog because she doesn’t have a personal savings plan in place. It was surprising to me, because I still don’t think I know much about personal finance. Stocks, options, bonds … blah, blah, blah… it all sounds like gobbelty-gook sometimes.

Still, I must admit, I’ve come a long way.

When I started the site in November 2004, I had just opened my first savings account and a 401K. I had about $3,000 to my name, all that remained from an initial $10,000 I saved by living with my parents for two years after graduation. I was spending more each month than I was making, and I couldn’t figure out why. 401K was a dirty … acronym?… and I spent a lot of my free time shopping. All which was fine by me.

That all changed when I started posting. I learned how to do a budget, which was painful, and started reading up on finance web sites. Easy ones that spoke my language, like Ms. Money. I began keeping better track of my money. I totaled my net worth as a benchmarking tool (to use a marketing term)… in February 2006, it was $2,300.**

The first two years on my own were hard. I wasn’t making a lot of money, rent was expensive, and I needed to furnish my apartment. I cut way back on my spending, we found a cheaper apartment a few blocks away and I discovered the beauty of direct transfers into my savings account. But by early 2006, I had only managed to save about $3,000 more into my savings account, according to my finance records, and I was probably only putting three or four percent into my 401K. It was still baby steps.

Luckily, with more time and dedication, things got better. Quickly.

In mid-2006, my hard work at the office paid off, and I began to earn more money. Sure, it required sacrifice, but finally, five years out of school, I started to earn a respectable income. This is a key point for me, because if I had chosen to either go back to school, switch jobs a bunch, be less dedicated to my career or try a new field, my income at this stage could be significantly less.

But I chose the path I did, and the past 18 months have been nothing short of amazing financially. I’ve been able to sock away a larger percentage of money into my retirement account. I opened a money market account that earns a higher interest than a typical savings account. I’m learning more about savings, and I’m considering new (and scary!) investment types.

Today, doing not much more than saving, saving, saving, my net worth is … drum roll please … more than $40,000.

I know I get frustrated. I know I complain. And the reality is, it’s not easy. But every day, it gets easier and less scary. The more you earn – the more you save – the easier it all becomes.

That said, I’m still a novice at this. I’m still a sucker for a pair of beautiful shoes. I’m still scared of losing my money. I’m still intimidated by people in the finance industry. I may be wrong about a lot, and my wealth accumulation may be slow. But I’m doing it.

So what are you waiting for?

** Footnote: I don’t have the record, but I think I probably left out a random retirement account that was set up for me through my company’s old holding company. Had I known about this account at the time, I believe my net worth would have been closer to $8,000 or $9,000.

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6 Responses to “Scared? Don’t be. Here’s my story.”

  1. tanya
    November 9th, 2007 @ 4:52 pm

    “I’m still a sucker for a pair of beautiful shoes” — I so feel you I just spent 19.99 + tax for a pair of Steve Madden booties leopard print … I could not resist the deal was too good to pass … My net worth is still + 28,000.00 and some change.

  2. Anonymous
    November 9th, 2007 @ 5:15 pm

    I don’t have a username Nic — but I get the message loud and clear! My goals for November will be (1)to open my first retirement account, (2) switch the sad little savings I have to a higher interest savings with a direct deposit, and (GULP, 3) set a budget… I don’t even know where to start with that one,though… I guess I just start with getting serious (and honest) about what I make, what I spend, and what I save.

    Three little goals for the month – I can do that.

    I’m going to peruse the BugdetingBabe’s Buddies’ sites and figure out how to start a budget! (But there still might be a frantic call or two with questions.)

    Thanks for this – it is just what I (and so many other young professionals) need to see and hear to get us going — 40k?! WOW! You constantly amaze and inspire me!! I’m a little scared to figure my net worth for the first time…but lets just take it one step at a time….three goals this month. Oh, and maybe I’ll get a username too!

    csw

  3. everythingiseverything
    November 9th, 2007 @ 11:58 pm

    I’m 28 and my net worth is way in the negative because of student loans 46K and cc debt 8K . I do have about 6K in an IRA and 403b combined. I borrowed from my 403b previously, but I’m done paying it back. Bad move, I know. I also cashed in my state pension from my first job about 2K. No car loan, though. You are doing swell. You are the SWELL Budgeting Babe!

  4. Kabes
    November 10th, 2007 @ 5:40 pm

    Nicole-
    A couple of things-
    I’ve been an avid reader since early 2005, and have discovered a lot of things through you, and whenever I’m craving a shopping trip, I think of you, so thank you
    Secondly, try this: mint.com, it’s the online version of quicken, and tracks all your finances in one place. It’s SO freaking easy to set up, you’re up and running in about 5 minutes. I’m not kidding. I know I sound like an advert, but I prefer to think of myself as a recent convert. Try it, and let me know what you think!!

  5. Nicole
    November 10th, 2007 @ 6:18 pm

    I’ve heard about mint.com and wanted to check it out. Thanks for the reminder Kabes!

  6. Nick
    November 13th, 2007 @ 6:49 pm

    trumptman.blogspot.com

    I really enjoy this website and have visited often. Your story is very inspirational. The greatest thing about it is how you are still very much a woman and have chosen to wade through and discover your own solutions with which you have empowered yourself.

    So many things I read today take women and infantilized them while claiming they would be powerful if not for that big bad world out there. Good for you!

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