I was raised by frugal parents, but they each could understand the psychological need for a “splurge” sometimes. So I grew up respecting and understanding the purpose of a budget, but also realizing that it’s okay to “splurge” sometimes, too.

I also grew up learning to treasure and enjoy more affordable experiences, such as a home facial and bubble bath; good movie on TV (or, later, rented VCR tape — now DVD or Netflix streaming! LOL); a festive, home cooked meal; reading a good book; playing a fun game with family/friends…things of that nature.

While it might seem like mixed signals or crossed wiring, I’m glad that I learned — and am happy to accept — that “necessities” mean different things to different people, but that sometimes a splurge is important, too.